Well, you'll have quiet a number of questions that would demand some strict answers and many of which would require you to take the time to carefully sort through them to figure out what is right for you. Is it possible for you to have a healthy and loving relationship with two men at a time? Could you be able to choose one over the other? Could that you choose really be the best for you? These are the likely questions you should ask yourself. This is something you will have to do because it is not a healthy relationship keeping two men at a time.
Major Reason Why that Happen
It is possible to be in a loving relationship and still find yourself having feelings for someone else. This is completely normal and it may just be temporary. Maybe this other person has done something nice for you or has shown you some kind of interest by one means or the other. This may trigger some emotional feelings towards this person and you may not understand why or how you can stop these feelings.
How do I determine which one is right for me?
1. You must think about your feelings for both people and why you are having these feelings for them- this would help you to figure out which one of them is best for you.
2. You may have to figure out which one of them is right for you. This may take a lot of thinking on your part. You will have to know what exactly a specific man that would suit your taste must possess and which one of them possesses these features most.
3. You may have to spend some time with both of them so that you can better determine which one of them you are more emotionally connected with.
How to make a wise decision without hurting any
Since you have known and agreed that keeping two men at a time is not a healthy relationship you can cope with and that; you have decided and chosen the one that's the best for you, the next thing to do is to let go off one while sticking with the other.
To do this, you don't really have to involve any of them. Gradually, just retract to friendship relationship with the one you want to let go and stick firmly with the other. While at this; be sure to treating the one you let go similar way you did treat him when you were together except your emotional connection that should be totally erased.
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